Helping People Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera
It is very common for people to say they dislike being photographed. For many, the idea of standing in front of a camera brings up the feeling of being watched or judged. Shoulders lift, smiles tighten, posture becomes a little too careful.
What people really mean when they say they don’t like having their photograph taken is that they haven’t yet had an experience where they felt at ease.
Feeling comfortable in front of the camera is not something most people arrive with.
It’s something that happens during the session — quietly, gradually — when the environment is calm and unhurried.
When I photograph people, whether for corporate headshots, school staff portraits or on a wedding day, I take time before raising the camera. We talk. We move. We adjust. The camera is present, but not the first thing that demands attention.
The shift happens when the person realises there is no pressure to perform.
They don’t need to smile on cue.
They don’t need to hold a pose.
They don’t need to “look professional” in a forced way.
Instead, I guide gently:
Where to stand so the light settles softly.
How to hold the shoulders so they feel natural.
When to breathe out and let the expression soften.
These adjustments are small, and they happen through conversation rather than instruction. When the focus is on connection rather than performance, the photograph begins to take care of itself.
There is also something grounding about photographing people in familiar environments — their workplace, their classroom, their studio, their home. When a setting feels known, the person feels known. The image becomes more truthful.
The aim is not perfection.
It is ease.
A photograph feels natural when the person feels safe to be themselves.
This is why a session should never feel rushed.
Time creates trust.
Trust allows expression.
Expression creates the photograph.
You can always see the difference in the final images. The eyes look less guarded. The posture feels rooted rather than posed. There is a sense of presence.
The best compliment I can receive after delivering a portrait is:
“That feels like me.”
A photograph should not change a person.
It should recognise them.
If you are looking to refresh staff headshots, leadership portraits or professional profiles and would like a session that prioritises comfort and authenticity, I would be glad to arrange a time to talk.
brian@biopicphoto.co.uk
www.biopicphoto.co.uk
Based in Southam. Working across Warwickshire, Leamington Spa, Rugby, Banbury and surrounding areas.